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Christian Women Should Never Marry These Men

For single women who are out there I believe you would love to get married to someone you will live with happily and go through challenges together. With many divorces surrounding you and news about marriages that are not working ringing in your ears, your dreams of getting married are probably becoming hopeless. I believe God is a match maker and is in the business of match making. Don’t settle for less when giving into a relationship but settle for God’s best. It is better to stay single that to end up in the hands of a wrong man. By the way here are the men you should never marry: 1.       A non-believer- 2 Corinthians 6:14 commands us not to be yoked or bound together with non-believers, for what business does the righteousness and lawlessness have or what fellowship does light and darkness have? For example you may believe the Word of God that says pre-marital sex is a sin and whoever loves should wait till marriage. But the unbelievers believe...

In What Way Should I Be My Husband's Helper?

 I Refuse to be a Stiff Neck..... As I grew up my mum and grandmother were grooming my sister and I into being good wives. I remember when we didn't cook well they would say 'Is that how you will be cooking for your husbands? or 'Is that how you will be washing for your husbands?' and so on. So I grew up knowing we are born to help our husbands and with the surrounding culture women were and still are seen as helping a man to cook, take care of children, take care of the house, wash, among others. I don't dispute this and I have decided to take up this role gladly and as I take care of my husband I believe I am doing it for God and my reward is coming. In the bible it is written: “ And the LORD God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him” (Genesis 2:18, KJV) . So I asked God you did not specify what kind of help I am supposed to be to my husband. Is it just help at home? Is that the only help? What if he can t...